One of the most troubling aspect of a relationship is when you suspect that your partner is cheating on you. While you may have what many call woman’s intuition, sometimes you need cold hard evidence to back up your hunch. The sad thing of the matter is, how will you react if you were able to confirm your suspicions?
Many relationship experts recommend approaching the matter objectively. However, you know very well that it is very difficult to remain objective if you are hurt. Nonetheless, you may want to consider some of the following tips on how you can catch a cheating partner.
Use the Cloud
Many of today’s applications use the Cloud to store information. Even if you were to delete your files and your photos from your desktop computer’s hard drive, chances are there are other ‘linked’ programmes on the Cloud where it is bound to be found. Remember, if an incriminating evidence was posted online and then deleted, the length of time between posting and deletion may already have propagated it elsewhere. The Internet can be your best source of solid evidence.
Use Wireless Video Technology
While you can just get legal investigation services, ResolveInvestigations.co.nz notes that sometimes seeing it yourself is better. Now is your chance to plant one of those miniature video recording devices in his personal belongings or even in certain parts of your house. Or, you can set up your very own surveillance system right in his computer. Of course, it takes a little know-how to operate these things. The point is for you to use whatever available technology to prove your case.
Use Surveillance Applications
Invest in some surveillance applications to install on your partner’s computer or even mobile device. These programmes keep track of their computer and mobile device usage. In some applications even whole-screen videos can be recorded. There are also companies that provide device monitoring services that take full advantage of the device’s GPS and communications infrastructure to pinpoint the location of your partner and record everything in the device.
Look for Behavioural Changes
The idea about catching a cheating partner is to catch him with solid evidence, not on some hunch. While behavioural changes such as frequent PC usage, frequent excuses for coming home late, excessive use of communications devices, and increased need for privacy, among others, can mean that your partner is cheating, there simply is no solid evidence to back it up.
Generally, to catch a cheating partner you can start with your hunch and observation of your partner’s behavioural changes. You can then take these as justification for the use of technology to really catch him red-handed.